What is Perfect ? Perfect means having all the required or
desirable elements, qualities or characteristics as good as it is possible to
be. Perfect is someone or something who is absolute or complete. Someone
without flaws, blemishes or imperfection.
But the question arises that what if you aren't perfect? Will that
make any impact on your relations or your personality, your character?
So what if you are not perfect. Nobody else is either. Perfect is
fictional, it is imaginary.
Leo Tolstoy said, "If you look for perfection, you'll never
be content." So there is no connection between perfection and
satisfaction.
And now, if you know that you are imperfect, just admit it boldly.
Feel your flaws, enjoy your imperfections because they are also as unique as
you are. Almighty made all the creatures different, not perfect.
If you realise that your imperfections make you unique then nobody
can stop you. You have learned the things that you did not know before, the
external situations and requirements have changed as well. What seemed to be
the right decision when you made it has turned out to be a wrong decision
today, as soon as you admit your mistake and realise that you were wrong and
take actions to correct it, your stress evaporates.
Sometimes people think that by admitting their faults, that they
are wrong, they are demonstrating weakness. They think that people will not
respect them if they admit that they were wrong in a decision, but it is the
other way around, having the courage and character to accept that you were
wrong, it actually increases people's respect for you and their willingness to
be influenced by you in future.
On the contrary, no one looks more weak and foolish than someone
who is obviously wrong but refuses to admit it. Because you are imperfect and
you are going to make mistakes, don't wait for everyone to figure it out.
Instead, jump ahead of the queue and quickly admit, 'I was wrong and i made a
mistake.' Don't just keep hiding yourself from the world.
This will only release your stress, reduce your tensions and you
will be a happy person, a cheerful soul and a relaxed and composed mind. The
better you will think and the more respected you will be by all the people
around you.
Love your imperfections. Love yourself.!
Really nice imperfections are beautiful....
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