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Tuesday, 16 May 2017

Admit that you aren't perfect

What is Perfect ? Perfect means having all the required or desirable elements, qualities or characteristics as good as it is possible to be. Perfect is someone or something who is absolute or complete. Someone without flaws, blemishes or imperfection.
              
But the question arises that what if you aren't perfect? Will that make any impact on your relations or your personality, your character?
So what if you are not perfect. Nobody else is either. Perfect is fictional, it is imaginary.

Leo Tolstoy said, "If you look for perfection, you'll never be content." So there is no connection between perfection and satisfaction.

And now, if you know that you are imperfect, just admit it boldly. Feel your flaws, enjoy your imperfections because they are also as unique as you are. Almighty made all the creatures different, not perfect.

If you realise that your imperfections make you unique then nobody can stop you. You have learned the things that you did not know before, the external situations and requirements have changed as well. What seemed to be the right decision when you made it has turned out to be a wrong decision today, as soon as you admit your mistake and realise that you were wrong and take actions to correct it, your stress evaporates.

Sometimes people think that by admitting their faults, that they are wrong, they are demonstrating weakness. They think that people will not respect them if they admit that they were wrong in a decision, but it is the other way around, having the courage and character to accept that you were wrong, it actually increases people's respect for you and their willingness to be influenced by you in future.

On the contrary, no one looks more weak and foolish than someone who is obviously wrong but refuses to admit it. Because you are imperfect and you are going to make mistakes, don't wait for everyone to figure it out. Instead, jump ahead of the queue and quickly admit, 'I was wrong and i made a mistake.' Don't just keep hiding yourself from the world. 

This will only release your stress, reduce your tensions and you will be a happy person, a cheerful soul and a relaxed and composed mind. The better you will think and the more respected you will be by all the people around you.

Love your imperfections. Love yourself.!


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